Tips for a Successful Courtship

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Know the Person You Want To Marry
By this rule we mean, know who you want to marry and only indulge in courtship with that person. If you are still thinking about a fling or do not want to give it a shot with a prospective groom or bride brought forward say no rather than quitting half way.

The First Impression
Take care with this physical appearances and take care to not step on someone’s toes by saying something. This one can last a life time and you want to remember and cherish it together.

Do Not Hurry In To Intimacy
Everything has its time. Emotional as well as physically, it can take a while before you open up or want to be together. If you were to ask us a question, we would say emotional should come before physical but that may not always happen in the order.

Share
Important – Important, in talks, thoughts, things, feelings. Sharing and communicating is what forms the rock of your relationship. You don’t want to go a mile before erecting this one.

Flirt
This is an important one. An art, it can stroke some fire in the courtship and keep it from going dull.

Voice Your Opinion
Who are you and how do you think? This is likely to happen when you talk but if you had initially taken care of not saying a few things, do show your personality or the other person may be confused at who are after marriage.

Take Up Any Lingering Issues
You may have talked, communicated how you feel, you are now a solid with each other. Sometimes there are things that cannot be said at the very beginning and require a trust to be formed. Rather than bring out any lingering issues after married, face the tough waters if you must tell each other something.

Romance
Wine and dine each other as much as you like. A courtship should not be dull. If you need to make things larger than life to enjoy doing so as no one will blame you.

Think a Loud About the Future
We suggest this so that you can know what the things you both want are. Thinking out loud will tell you what you want and what the other person may not want. A courtship can give you both time to adjust and think over what you want together.

Give Each Other Space
The good thing about a courtship is that you are not yet staying together. While physical space is necessary, make sure you give each other mental and emotional space too. For a lot of couples today, living in before is an option. To make it work, giving each other space is necessary.